Tease and Denial, Ruined Orgasms, Sexual Stamina, & You
by Ms. Ryan of www.alphafemdomphonesex.com
There's something I've noticed over the years when it comes to the kinds of men who want to be teased and denied. They often have small cocks, for one. For another, they also seem to struggle with sexual stamina. I think that's why they gravitate toward being denied in such a way because, either consciously or subconsciously, they're trying to improve their sexual skill. And since they can't change the sizes of their cocks (barring something very unusual, that is), they go for trying to improve their stamina instead.
I have to say, that's a rather noble cause. Even if you can't provide a woman with the type of length and girth that she probably wants, the least you can do is make sure you're not spurting two minutes in. Good for you for thinking of that.
(It is true that being teased and denied can help improve your stamina, by the way. You're not wrong for thinking that.)
Tease and Denial Improves Sexual Performance
When I want to help improve a man's stamina--be it for helping him please his lovers or just so that he can ultimately endure more of my level of extreme cock control--I often take a page from Tantra. In sexual Tantra, men are taught to separate the act of orgasm from the act of ejaculation. In other words, you can learn to orgasm without ejaculating and vice-versa. And since it's the act of ejaculation that makes men's cocks grow "soft," rather than the act of orgasm, then the longer you can hold back your squirting, the longer you can go on.
Of course, the very idea of "tease and denial" mostly rules out any actual orgasms, but that's quite all right. It works with ruined orgasms, too. In my experience, it works even better that way because the ruined orgasm produces such a sense of frustration in the man that he's even more motivated to continue.
Tease and Denial and Ruined Orgasms
Really, all that we have to do is make sure that when we ruin your orgasm, no actual cum escapes. This can be accomplished in a number of ways, the most common of which is often called "thumbing." Thumbing is exactly what it sounds like--placing one's thumb over the slit in a man's cock right as he is about to cum. Done correctly, it prevents any fluid from escaping, thereby causing an unsatisfying "ruined orgasm"...and usually doesn't result in the ruinee losing his hard-on, either, which allows the torment to go on and on for as long as the ruiner likes.
(Incidentally, both "thumbing" and other techniques for ruining orgasms are easily taught. That is very convenient for both the Masturbatrix and the man who's at her mercy.)
Generally, I like to begin these sorts of sessions with new guys by only ruining their orgasms and then continuing their torment two or three times. As they gain more experience, I'll increase the number slowly. You'd be amazed at how many times a man's orgasm can be ruined and his erection still remain....